stim·u·lus
n.
Something causing or regarded as causing a response. An agent, action, or condition that elicits or accelerates a physiological or psychological activity or response. Something that incites or rouses to action; an incentive.

stag·nant
adj.
Not moving or flowing; motionless. Foul or stale from standing. Showing little or no sign of activity or advancement; not developing or progressing; inactive. Lacking vitality or briskness; sluggish or dull: a stagnant mind.

but can my mother understand why i need to move out of this town?